I think of a relationship the same way as I think of a flower. How can you “create” a flower? A flower “happens” when you remove the restrictions that prevent it from “happening”. The presupposition is that the flower “wants” to grow and you can only facilitate the conditions for it to grow, all by itself, by removing the hindrances.
You don’t “build” a relationship by using a hammer and nails, but by planting a seed and creating the conditions for that seed to emerge on its own.
The same goes for love.
Yes, I agree, you could labor a relationship using superficial appearances and acting as to make-believe. But this would be superficial. Superficial is also insubstantial, and a relationship that’s not based on substance is not a real relationship.
Did you find that the idea of Expecting something to happen is actually making you disappointed, frustrated or irritated when things
don’t go exactly the way you envisioned? This reveals a hidden attachment to that particular outcome and that you just became “needy”.
And, when you bring “neediness” into an interaction, you already lost.
If you couldn’t make it to the call (especially my friends from Europe) and if you want to listen to the recording of the Radio Show, you can find below the link for it.
I think it was a good show, I know the guest personally… he’s a good guy and he know what he’s talking about…
or download it directly from here:
Also, I made available a few key chapters from my upcoming book. If you have questions about what you read, feel free to comment on this post and ask me:
I’ve been a bit nervous at the beginning (it was my first interview “in direct”, at radio), but then I became Present, I Connected with myself and I focused only on “what would be relevant for the listeners”.
I hope you’ll enjoy it!
FREE Radio Show 7:00pm ET | 6CT | 5MT | 4PT
with author of “Heart To Heart Selling” and Master Your Influence Coach Cezar Cehan.
Do you feel awkward asking for money for doing something you love?
Do you want to feel worthy of people’s admiration and respect when you offer your services ?
Every human interaction is an act of Influence/ Selling.
Perhaps you have been caught up the old belief system that you need this sale , that you must have it.
This is coming from a space that is demeaning and fear based.
In our show tonight we are so lucky to have a master of influence coach Cezar Cehan , someone who understands
that we influence others all the time.
We can either do it from a mindless place of fear and need or we can come from a mind-full -ness congruent space of being true to ourselves and what is offered to the client.
You become relaxed and happy to be sharing value with your client.
You and your clients have rapport on a deep level and value is created for you both.
What if selling can be enjoyable , fun for all parties involved? What if selling is the only way which value can grow in any community?
Join us as we explore how to create more value in our lives by coming from a space of choosing mindful appreciation in all our exchanges.
Cezar will be gifting us with some playful ways to understand that influence is natural and necessary and it can be easy and fun.
See funky friendly link below (a few key chapters from the “Heart to Heart Selling” book):
Lynda Walsh www.jacksonvillehypnosiscenter.com 904-945-9099
Cezar Cehan www.hearttoheartselling.com 402-403-9322
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Lynda Walsh Master Hypnotist /Concierge Business Coaching www.jacksonvillehypnosiscenter.com